Sorry, I’m Late: Should You Apologize For Absences From Social Networks?

“I wanted to take some time to apologize for not being on social networks lately.”

I’m sure you’ve seen status updates through Twitter or Facebook with a message like the one above. People send out updates when they’ve been away from social networks for an “extended” time, which obviously has very different meanings for different kinds of people.

Should you send out updates after some time away?

It’s a tough question to answer. Daniel Scocco says that you shouldn’t apologize for a lack of posts to blogs, so what makes social networks any different? Sure, social networks aren’t exactly blogs—as there is arguably more interaction on these networks—but if you shouldn’t do it on blogs, it gives us one side to the debate.

The other (and immensely personal) side says that you should. Perhaps your followers or friends mean more to you than in real life. Do you use social networks for business purposes or to impress clients? Obviously, people that apologize for being away must have some inherent reason or purpose behind it.

So here’s my challenge to you: while this post offers no solid answer to this debatable question, I want you to think (and comment) about your own social media habits. Do you apologize for being away from social networks? If so, why?

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  • I apologize on Twitter when I have to been away because I have made true friends there across the world who mention me and have tried hard to help me as my memoir has just come out. So, if I have to be away, as I did today for a video shoot and interview, I say why I'm away and promise to catch up. Twitter is both a polite and generous place. I say manners count there--as they do whenever contact is one-on-one. If we understand that the best of Twitter is one-on-one contact, we make the world personal and build relationships that truly do count!

    I tweeted your wonderful column here on the apology before the 4th of July. I'm sorry I couldn't comment until today: I was in Iowa for the 4th with no Internet connection.

    Mary
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